Monday, October 22

To Love Is To Express It

I was reminded pagi ni by a small gesture, that to love, we need to express it, saying it out loud, hantar surat, dedicate a song or two, going through hardship to get the things he/she/they need, do the cooking, treat to a meal, tulis comel2 then letak bawah bantal, taruk bunga ros atas katil, tinggalkan nota dekat meja, or scribble on it with pencil, or make a call masa diorang stress, or tengok bulan pastu suruh diorang tengok bulan jugak, ajak jogging sama2, ajak breakfast sama2, ajak sleepover, ajak kepada Allah :), bagi hadiah jam tangan or wallet (ehem, tak beli wallet lagi smenjak hilang haritu :P), tumpangkan naik kereta, hantarkan balik rumah, temankan dia pegi klinik or hospital (either dia sakit or melawat org sakit), semunyik2 masukkan duit dalam wallet dia bila kita tau dia tengah sengkek, melawat dia dekat rumah, ajak panjat bukit tabur lepas tu sembang sampai pagi buta sambil tengok bintang dan matahari terbit, buat skydiving sama2, bagi hadiah bracelet, sing him/her/them a song, ajak tengok cerita/drama/dokumentari feveret dia, lololol dengan dia, listen to his/her/their stories, lukis dia, ajak dia pegi masjid besi solat subuh pastu stay dekat situ mengaji sama2 sambil tunggu matahari naik solat dhuha pastu pergi breakfast, or kalau dekat UK tu tengah2 sejuk tu duduk dalam duvet sama2 mengomel2 dekat dia tak pun dengar dia ngomel2, takpun bagi hadiah kereta idaman dia or kalau tak kereta idaman pun kereta je so that dia boleh drive bila perlu unless dia nak bekepit jugak tak nak drive sniri nak kita hantarkan tiap tiap pagi, pesan kat dia banyak bersabar jangan marah ini semua dugaan dari Allah untuk uji kita, ajak dia travel, mana-mana pun takpe tak payah tempat mahal macam abu dhabi ke dubai ke bali ke etc etc asalkan travel dan time tu kite akan lebih kenal dia dan lagi best kalau pegi tempat yang ada 'sejarah' (sekolah lama ke, tempat kenal dulu ke, tempat fly dulu ke, etc etc), or just duduk dengan dia and do nothing, he/she kadang just perlukan your presence je.

anyway, in expressing your love, the possibilities are endless. :)

let's spread love!

Rasulullah said, "When a man loves his brother he should tell him that he loves him." (Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi)

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind.
"Pooh!" he whispered.
"Yes,Piglet?"
"Nothing", said Piglet. Taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you."